Category Archives: Thoughts

It is all in your Perspective.

I was recently reminded that how one feels about or looks at what is happening can very much depend very much on where you are standing. There can easily be two very different ways of seeing the same events, depending on whether one is on the inside or the outside.

I had a discussion with some people involved with the decision making process on actions to take in addressing homelessness. They felt things were moving along nicely, with all necessary speed. Later I had the chance to discuss what was taking place with the homeless. They felt things were moving at a glacial pace on making (non) decisions.

Clearly your view on these matters, whether or not decisions and actions occurred in a timely manner, was dependant on your living arrangements – literally whether you were lining on the outside or the inside of homeless issues. To those living on the outside – on the streets – and waiting on these decisions to obtain access to food, shelter, basic hygienic facilities, counselling and other forms of needed help, timely is pretty much NOW. To those making the decisions and who at the end of the “working day” go home to the comfort of shelter and food, timely does not have a set schedule or the same sense of urgency. When you think about it this difference is not surprising, that those with food and shelter lack the driving motivation for action of those without shelter or food.

Reality is that motivating those responsible for addressing problems to act in a timely manner is often difficult. How then do we provide motivation to those facing the highly complex and perplexing issues of homelessness and poverty? How do you motivate action and overcome the fear of making the tiniest mistake in a situation were even the very best choices are likely to give rise to some negative outcomes?

Creatively! I propose that those faced with making decisions on these issues be given an education immersion course that would enable them to gain first hand experience with the barriers faced by, and the needs of, those living homeless. We send those involved with planning and decision making to live in Compassion Park until some plans, decisions and actions are forthcoming. The City’s recent actions have rendered it unoccupied, clean and available for use. This way those tasked to address these issues gain both education and motivation. I am sure this would provide for planning and action in a much more timely fashion.

I may not want to listen …

…but in regaining my mental balance I may have lost the ability to not hear. I certainly had to listen when the article I had started on this topic went elsewhere on me. I had to write the article that demanded expression and then had to go back to express the original thought/point I had wanted to make. These days, even if it is something I feel is wrong, if it is from a source that could be correct I have to consult trusted advisors. Sometimes I would rather not listen/think about what was said and try to ignore what was said – but these days ignoring what I do not want to hear seems impossible.

I was sitting in Compassion Park discussing the difficulties some of the homeless would face in transitioning off the streets. The other party in the discussion commented that I could have some trouble myself. Me? Ha! No way! We carried on our discussion, but try as I might I had hear/listened to the question which now sat at the back of my mind. In me this is where thoughts sit to ferment.

The upshot was that I could see that as much as I would like to ignore it there was a possibility that I would have trouble adjusting to indoor life again. So rather than bury my head in the sand I began to consider what I should do. From this came a plan that should enable a smooth transition.

The point is that because I could not listen, I had to think about the matter. In doing this and coming up with a transition plan to address possible problems, I hope to have ensured that transition from the streets and homelessness should not rise up and bite my a*s. Significantly reducing the chance of failure and a return to the streets.

If we all had to listen, we would all be forced to think about not only what we wanted to hear, but about the though questions, issues and decisions. Being forced to think about things our decision-making would improve. Of course then we would have to accept responsibility for what the outcome of our decisions – without having the recourse of blaming someone else.