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Unfair Judgement Abounds

I ran into a friend at the library this week. Conversations with him are interesting, but admittedly a little difficult due to his hearing impairment. I suppose most would say he is deaf. Between lip reading and hearing aids he can understand what you are saying and his speech is remarkably clear, all things considered. When speaking to him you have to choose your words with a little thought as you may need to repeat any he misses. You also want to avoid words such as anticholinergic. Paying attention when he is talking is a must along with not being embarrassed to ask for a repeat of anything you could not understand. People seem especially embarrassed to admit missing any words when speaking with someone severely hearing impaired. Because of the concentration required conversations tend to be a little slower, but quite interesting. What a concept – conversations where participants listen carefully and choose their words with some thought and care. As I said, it makes for out of the ordinary conversation.

We met as we were, and unfortunately continue to be, job searching with the need for access to the internet, He has a BA Physical Geography and is currently working on a BSc at UCFV while continuing his search for employment in biological research, a field where he gained experience when working in Montreal. Given the boom in bio-tech this would seem to be a good field to be seeking a job in. I had not run into him for a while as I was barred from the Job Zone for using the internet connection for non-job search uses. They felt that felt that maintaining a web site etc. were not networking to find employment and thus non-job usage, consequently I have had to make use of other more flexible but limited access.

Since we had not spoken recently the conversation turned to employment. He had applied had applied to a firm advertising for someone with his skills and experience and as an added bonus it was an Abbotsford firm, Neova Tech.. By the third interview he was speaking with the CEO and he felt things were going very well. Suddenly in the fourth meeting the company plans had changed and while my friend was disappointed, things happen.

Shortly thereafter the advertisement for the position reappeared in the newspapers with the company even sending a fax to UCFV seeking for someone to fill the position. Ironically the faculty as UCFV felt my friend was perfect for the job and brought it to his attention. As you might expect he was somewhat upset over this and contacted the company. The “explanation” this time is that they had some kind of vague “safety concerns” which they were not able to give an example of, making for a rather lame excuse.

Francis’s educational accomplishments demonstrate his ability to learn, communicate and perform at a high level. Yes it takes a little extra effort to communicate verbally, but it has been my experience that those who are in situations similar to those of my friend make excellent employees with a willingness to go that extra mile for those willing to make the small effort required for them to work effectively with you. In fact, one could argue that Francis’s hearing impairment gives him an ability to concentrate and not be distracted by conversation or noise around him and thus is in fact an advantage.

Understandably he and his wife are very upset about this prejudicial behaviour. So was I and making use of the verbal skills advantage that having normal hearing grants me (think about it) I chose to write about this unacceptable and damaging behaviour making the public aware of this deplorable corporate behaviour. I told him I would be writing and urged him to seek out any and all help he could to seek to redress the situation, with particular attention to those people and groups who protect the disabled from discrimination. Frances has worked hard to achieve the education and employment he wants and finds that discrimination and injustice is a bigger barrier than his hearing ever was. We are a community and whether the person is handicapped physically, mentally or through homelessness issues they deserve our consideration, help and fair treatment from all of us.

Thank you for your letter Marilyn Kozak

Editor, The News:

I wish to affirm the letter from Mr. James Breckenridge regarding the deplorable and callous treatment meted out to a homeless person called Kevin (The News, July 15).

On June 28, I spent five hours in an emergency room hallway waiting for my husband to be seen by a doctor. I witnessed first-hand the indifferent way this very, very ill person was treated. It disturbed me greatly.

It was clear that the emergency room staff had dealt with Kevin often and knew him well. He was sent away twice in the time I was there, despite his obvious extreme difficulty breathing.

At some later time, he was admitted to ward Two West, where my husband was also admitted. Once on the ward, he seemed to get the care and kindness to be expected by a patient and it seemed like he was made as comfortable as possible in his final days.

I wish to let Mr. Breckenridge know that Kevin’s death has had a profound effect on both me and my husband, and we won’t soon forget what happened to a fellow human being in desperate need of help.

Marilyn Kozak

The original letter about Kevin is below.

Kevin George Ellis

Kevin George Ellis, a member of Abbotsford’s homeless community, died last Tuesday night. His release from the pain of these soulless streets will be mourned in the homeless community and those who care to serve the needs of these citizens. Kevin was human and had the flaws that come with that state of being. It was his misfortune that one of his flaws was addiction, a scourge that devoured his life. Kevin had serious respiratory problems that were only complicated by his addiction. Worse misery lay in his having the wrong addiction. If you ever doubted the driving power of addiction consider that Kevin knew his addiction would, together with his respiratory illness, cause him an early, painful death. Even in the face of this death sentence Kevin was a helpless prisoner of his addiction. Sadly, Kevin is not unique. I lost a cousin decades ago because he could not stay sober (from beer) long enough for life saving medical treatment.

While the broad majority of his fellow citizens will not notice his passing from the City’s indifferent streets and those malignant of spirit will demonstrate this warping with the utterance “Good, one less homeless bum, the rest need to die – the faster the better”, the humane will deplore the circumstances of his passing. It was wrenching to see the suffering inflicted on Kevin by the system and to a lesser degree society. I do not know if system and attitude changes would or could have granted him a longer life. I do know our current systems and attitudes condemned him to death and made his life at the end extremely miserable and painful, denying him any comfort. Others with a desperate need for caring will die in pain and loneliness, killed by the callousness of our society.

Kevin is not the first person I have seen die or dying from the complications of a respiratory illness and an ongoing addiction. He is the first who I have seen with an illegal drug addiction. Until now the addiction I have associated with respiratory problems has been nicotine, with cigarettes the method these addicts use to get their drug fix. While this group of addicts may not have received a great deal of sympathy, they did receive care, consideration and un-begrudged medical treatment. Having labeled Kevin as a homeless druggie and bum the system and society judged him as unworthy of solicitude and denied him simple mercy.

When you look at the world around you and find it an unfriendly, dark and frightening place, remember it is this way because of choices we make and have made as a society. We have made human life the cheapest commodity on the planet and created a class of disposable human beings. The society and behaviour we so deplore is merely the reaping of the whirlwind we as a society have chosen to sow. If we want a better world we need to build it on a solid foundation of love for our fellow man, especially the least among us and those in desperate need.

Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome.

Isaac Asimov