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As I walked past the television an advertisement for the Alanon\/Alateen Family Groups came on. This organization is about helping the families and children of alcoholism and addiction get healthy.<\/span><\/p>\n

In recovering my own mental health I have come to an appreciation how much how we think affects our behaviour. I know that even if there had been a magic pill to cure my mental illness, taking it would have changed nothing. Having lived with the illness so long my thinking, my thought patterns, had become warped. \u201cCuring\u201d the illness would have accomplished nothing because I would have continued to think and act in the warped ways I had learned.<\/p>\n

I am an adult child of alcoholism; I grew up in a household with an alcoholic parent. Children learn from their parents, are directly influenced by the environment they grow up in. I learned lots of bad ways of thinking, acquired a multitude of \u201c-isms\u201d that influenced and ruled my life and behaviours. The interaction between the \u201cstinking thinking\u201d I learned in my home life and my mental illness proved devastating, eventually consuming my life, myself and resulting in homelessness.<\/p>\n

Recovery has been an interesting journey of learning, self discovery, growth and change. A significant part of my recovery has been to learn about and deal with the effects that being raised in a household with alcoholism had on my ways of thinking and perceiving the world around me. This knowledge has given me a keen appreciation of just how important it is to acknowledge and deal with the effects alcoholic or addiction have on children raised in that environment.<\/p>\n

With the path my life has taken over the past several years I have a keen awareness of the extent that alcoholism and addiction exist in our society. Couple that with the experience and knowledge of the effects alcoholism and addiction have on children and I am left wondering why the local Alateen meeting is not overflowing with the children that simple mathematics tells us there are in need of help in dealing with and recovery from the effects alcoholism and addiction have had on their young lives and minds.<\/p>\n

When I posed this question to an Alateen group I got some interesting and thought provoking answers. There is of course a thread of denial, of various forms and degrees, running through the \u201creasons\u201d for parents not insisting their children seek out Alateen.<\/p>\n

The \u201cI am alright now and therefore everyone else will be or is\u201d syndrome, ignoring the reality that you getting help to recover in no way helps those affected by your behaviour to recover from the effects of that behaviour. We are speaking of real life, not a fairy tale land of make believe and live happily ever after.<\/p>\n

There is guilt, embarrassment and shame. Perfectly understandable human reactions, but not acceptable as excuses for not taking the actions you should.<\/p>\n

You only compound the guilt when you let it prevent you form acting as you should. Those affected by your behaviour should be at the top of your amends list; especially children for your behaviours will have life long consequences for them \u2013 if you do not act to help them recovery healthy behaviours. You cannot change the past, you need to let it go or you will find yourself anchored to the past and to bad behaviours from your past. As uncomfortable as it maybe or may make you feel the amends you need to make is to help people recover from the effect your behaviour has had on them \u2013 including mentally and spiritually.<\/p>\n

You need to deal with shame and embarrassment in the same manner as quilt, and as with guilt a major part of truly healing yourself is to help those your behaviour wounded to heal themselves. Shame and embarrassment \u2013 secrets, and we know you are as sick as your secrets. Secrets can be so very poisonous and the only true way to deal with them is to accept you behaviours and the results of those behaviours, acknowledging them, making amends as needed and cutting them free behind you so they do not poison the future.<\/p>\n

Fear of what the kids will say and share about themselves, family and YOU. They will share what they need to share to get well \u2013 live with it. Groups such as AA, Alanon and Alateen only really work when one is able to share the truth and in a metaphysical and indefinable way \u2013 what you need to share or someone else needs to hear. Afraid they will speak of your insane behaviour? Get over it \u2013 and yourself.<\/p>\n

Alateen is not about the parents, it is about letting the kids get healthy both mentally and spirituality. Non-sane behaviour is one of the consequences of alcoholism and addiction. Parenting is about doing the best you can in raising your children. Your past behaviour is just that \u2013 past and nothing you do will change that past nor make it cease to exist.<\/p>\n

You can change the future. If you have any doubt about how important that is for your children, just ask any Adult Child of Alcoholism how important they know it is. There are good reasons that mental health professionals study the effect being raised in a home with alcoholism or addiction has and continues to have on children into their adult lives \u2013 and the lives of their children. There are many books and studies on how crippling and devastating be raised in alcohol, addiction or other unhealthy circumstances are on children and their lives.<\/p>\n

If you love your children or grandchildren freely and without reservation and they have been affected by alcohol or addiction \u2013 get them to Abbotsford\u2019s Alateen meeting. As an after word let me say that if a group or meeting would like to hear this message from the horse\u2019s mouth \u2013 I know an Alateen or two who would be willing to speak \u2013 just be sure you really want to hear what they have to say.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

As I walked past the television an advertisement for the Alanon\/Alateen Family Groups came on. This organization is about helping the families and children of alcoholism and addiction get healthy. In recovering my own mental health I have come to an appreciation how much how we think affects our behaviour. I know that even if there had been a magic pill to cure my mental illness, taking it would have changed nothing. Having lived with the illness so long my thinking, my thought patterns, had become warped. \u201cCuring\u201d the illness would have accomplished nothing because I would have continued to think and act in the warped ways I had learned. I am an adult child of alcoholism; I grew up in a household with an alcoholic parent. Children learn from their parents, are directly influenced by the environment they grow up in. I learned lots of bad ways of thinking, acquired a multitude of \u201c-isms\u201d that influenced and ruled my life and behaviours. The interaction between the \u201cstinking thinking\u201d I learned in my home life and my mental illness proved devastating, eventually consuming my life, myself and resulting in homelessness. Recovery has been an interesting journey of learning, self discovery, growth and change. A significant part of my recovery has been to learn about and deal with the effects that being raised in a household with alcoholism had on my ways of thinking and perceiving the world around me. This knowledge has given me a keen appreciation of just how important it is to acknowledge and deal with the effects alcoholic or addiction have on children raised in that environment. With the path my life has taken over the past several years I have a keen awareness of the extent that alcoholism and addiction exist in our society. Couple that with the experience and knowledge of the effects alcoholism and addiction have on children and I am left wondering why the local Alateen meeting is not overflowing with the children that simple mathematics tells us there are in need of help in dealing with and recovery from the effects alcoholism and addiction have had on their young lives and minds. When I posed this question to an Alateen group I got some interesting and thought provoking answers. There is of course a thread of denial, of various forms and degrees, running through the \u201creasons\u201d for parents not insisting their children seek out Alateen. The \u201cI am alright now and therefore everyone else will be or is\u201d syndrome, ignoring the reality that you getting help to recover in no way helps those affected by your behaviour to recover from the effects of that behaviour. We are speaking of real life, not a fairy tale land of make believe and live happily ever after. There is guilt, embarrassment and shame. Perfectly understandable human reactions, but not acceptable as excuses for not taking the actions you should. You only compound the guilt when you let it prevent you form acting as you should. Those affected by your behaviour should be at the top of your amends list; especially children for your behaviours will have life long consequences for them \u2013 if you do not act to help them recovery healthy behaviours. You cannot change the past, you need to let it go or you will find yourself anchored to the past and to bad behaviours from your past. As uncomfortable as it maybe or may make you feel the amends you need to make is to help people recover from the effect your behaviour has had on them \u2013 including mentally and spiritually. You need to deal with shame and embarrassment in the same manner as quilt, and as with guilt a major part of truly healing yourself is to help those your behaviour wounded to heal themselves. Shame and embarrassment \u2013 secrets, and we know you are as sick as your secrets. Secrets can be so very poisonous and the only true way to deal with them is to accept you behaviours and the results of those behaviours, acknowledging them, making amends as needed and cutting them free behind you so they do not poison the future. Fear of what the kids will say and share about themselves, family and YOU. They will share what they need to share to get well \u2013 live with it. Groups such as AA, Alanon and Alateen only really work when one is able to share the truth and in a metaphysical and indefinable way \u2013 what you need to share or someone else needs to hear. Afraid they will speak of your insane behaviour? Get over it \u2013 and yourself. Alateen is not about the parents, it is about letting the kids get healthy both mentally and spirituality. Non-sane behaviour is one of the consequences of alcoholism and addiction. Parenting is about doing the best you can in raising your children. Your past behaviour is just that \u2013 past and nothing you do will change that past nor make it cease to exist. You can change the future. If you have any doubt about how important that is for your children, just ask any Adult Child of Alcoholism how important they know it is. There are good reasons that mental health professionals study the effect being raised in a home with alcoholism or addiction has and continues to have on children into their adult lives \u2013 and the lives of their children. There are many books and studies on how crippling and devastating be raised in alcohol, addiction or other unhealthy circumstances are on children and their lives. If you love your children or grandchildren freely and without reservation and they have been affected by alcohol or addiction \u2013 get them to Abbotsford\u2019s Alateen meeting. As an after word let me say that if a group or meeting would like to hear this message from the horse\u2019s mouth \u2013 I know an Alateen or two who would be willing to speak \u2013 just be … Continue reading Love is a selfless emotion.<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-197","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-point-of-view"],"yoast_head":"\nLove is a selfless emotion. - James W. 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Having lived with the illness so long my thinking, my thought patterns, had become warped. \u201cCuring\u201d the illness would have accomplished nothing because I would have continued to think and act in the warped ways I had learned. I am an adult child of alcoholism; I grew up in a household with an alcoholic parent. Children learn from their parents, are directly influenced by the environment they grow up in. I learned lots of bad ways of thinking, acquired a multitude of \u201c-isms\u201d that influenced and ruled my life and behaviours. The interaction between the \u201cstinking thinking\u201d I learned in my home life and my mental illness proved devastating, eventually consuming my life, myself and resulting in homelessness. Recovery has been an interesting journey of learning, self discovery, growth and change. A significant part of my recovery has been to learn about and deal with the effects that being raised in a household with alcoholism had on my ways of thinking and perceiving the world around me. This knowledge has given me a keen appreciation of just how important it is to acknowledge and deal with the effects alcoholic or addiction have on children raised in that environment. With the path my life has taken over the past several years I have a keen awareness of the extent that alcoholism and addiction exist in our society. Couple that with the experience and knowledge of the effects alcoholism and addiction have on children and I am left wondering why the local Alateen meeting is not overflowing with the children that simple mathematics tells us there are in need of help in dealing with and recovery from the effects alcoholism and addiction have had on their young lives and minds. When I posed this question to an Alateen group I got some interesting and thought provoking answers. There is of course a thread of denial, of various forms and degrees, running through the \u201creasons\u201d for parents not insisting their children seek out Alateen. The \u201cI am alright now and therefore everyone else will be or is\u201d syndrome, ignoring the reality that you getting help to recover in no way helps those affected by your behaviour to recover from the effects of that behaviour. We are speaking of real life, not a fairy tale land of make believe and live happily ever after. There is guilt, embarrassment and shame. Perfectly understandable human reactions, but not acceptable as excuses for not taking the actions you should. You only compound the guilt when you let it prevent you form acting as you should. Those affected by your behaviour should be at the top of your amends list; especially children for your behaviours will have life long consequences for them \u2013 if you do not act to help them recovery healthy behaviours. You cannot change the past, you need to let it go or you will find yourself anchored to the past and to bad behaviours from your past. As uncomfortable as it maybe or may make you feel the amends you need to make is to help people recover from the effect your behaviour has had on them \u2013 including mentally and spiritually. You need to deal with shame and embarrassment in the same manner as quilt, and as with guilt a major part of truly healing yourself is to help those your behaviour wounded to heal themselves. Shame and embarrassment \u2013 secrets, and we know you are as sick as your secrets. Secrets can be so very poisonous and the only true way to deal with them is to accept you behaviours and the results of those behaviours, acknowledging them, making amends as needed and cutting them free behind you so they do not poison the future. Fear of what the kids will say and share about themselves, family and YOU. They will share what they need to share to get well \u2013 live with it. Groups such as AA, Alanon and Alateen only really work when one is able to share the truth and in a metaphysical and indefinable way \u2013 what you need to share or someone else needs to hear. Afraid they will speak of your insane behaviour? Get over it \u2013 and yourself. Alateen is not about the parents, it is about letting the kids get healthy both mentally and spirituality. Non-sane behaviour is one of the consequences of alcoholism and addiction. Parenting is about doing the best you can in raising your children. Your past behaviour is just that \u2013 past and nothing you do will change that past nor make it cease to exist. You can change the future. If you have any doubt about how important that is for your children, just ask any Adult Child of Alcoholism how important they know it is. 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They will share what they need to share to get well \u2013 live with it. Groups such as AA, Alanon and Alateen only really work when one is able to share the truth and in a metaphysical and indefinable way \u2013 what you need to share or someone else needs to hear. Afraid they will speak of your insane behaviour? Get over it \u2013 and yourself. Alateen is not about the parents, it is about letting the kids get healthy both mentally and spirituality. Non-sane behaviour is one of the consequences of alcoholism and addiction. Parenting is about doing the best you can in raising your children. Your past behaviour is just that \u2013 past and nothing you do will change that past nor make it cease to exist. You can change the future. If you have any doubt about how important that is for your children, just ask any Adult Child of Alcoholism how important they know it is. 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