{"id":2760,"date":"2013-06-15T10:21:57","date_gmt":"2013-06-15T17:21:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jameswbreckenridge.ca\/?p=2760"},"modified":"2013-06-15T10:21:57","modified_gmt":"2013-06-15T17:21:57","slug":"words-do-not-an-apology-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jameswbreckenridge.ca\/?p=2760","title":{"rendered":"Words do NOT an apology make."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Despite what you may have heard or read in the media, neither Mayor Banman nor Abbotsford City Council have made their apologies to the homeless for the use of chicken s**t as a weapon in the war the mayor and council have been waging on the homeless.<\/p>\n<p>Mayor Banman has, under the intense scrutiny of the media, taken the step that political correctness and PR demanded \u2013 a photo op with his mayorness saying \u201csorry\u201d and shaking hands with the homeless.<\/p>\n<p>Mayor Banman\u2019s words do not constitute an apology.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Consider:<\/span> I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. The next day I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. The day after that I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. This continues for 30 days,<\/p>\n<p>Have I apologized to you 30 times? Of course not! The word \u201csorry\u201d, no matter how many times it is said, is meaningless&#8230;.unless and until I change the offensive behaviour, until I cease to smack you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019.. An apology occurs when the offender stops the offensive behaviour.<\/p>\n<p>Mayor Banman\u2019s \u201csorry\u201d is nothing more than an acknowledgement that his, city council\u2019s and the City of Abbotsford\u2019s interpersonal accounts with the homeless are out of balance; that the lack of scruples and ethics in the City\u2019s treatment of the homeless has resulted in a debt being owed the homeless.<\/p>\n<p>The personal account balances of the mayor, council, the City of Abbotsford and Abbotsford\u2019s homeless citizens cannot be brought into balance through words.<\/p>\n<p>The homeless have heard Abbotsford mayors and councils say \u201csorry\u201d on numerous occasions over the past ten years. \u201cSorry\u201d being said to the homeless whenever the actions of mayors and councils have put the City of Abbotsford under negative public scrutiny by the media. If there is any group in Abbotsford who understand how valueless the words, particularly \u201csorry\u201d, of Abbotsford\u2019s mayors and councillors are &#8211; it is the homeless.<\/p>\n<p>The mayor, council and the City of Abbotsford will have apologized to the homelss when they stop treating the homeless like an infestation to be cleansed from the city and treat them as human beings in need of a helping hand, encouragement and support to get on their feet and achieve a state of wellness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite what you may have heard or read in the media, neither Mayor Banman nor Abbotsford City Council have made their apologies to the homeless for the use of chicken s**t as a weapon in the war the mayor and council have been waging on the homeless. Mayor Banman has, under the intense scrutiny of the media, taken the step that political correctness and PR demanded \u2013 a photo op with his mayorness saying \u201csorry\u201d and shaking hands with the homeless. Mayor Banman\u2019s words do not constitute an apology. Consider: I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. The next day I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. The day after that I walk up to you and smacked you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019, say \u201cSorry\u201d and leave. This continues for 30 days, Have I apologized to you 30 times? Of course not! The word \u201csorry\u201d, no matter how many times it is said, is meaningless&#8230;.unless and until I change the offensive behaviour, until I cease to smack you hard \u2018upside the head\u2019.. An apology occurs when the offender stops the offensive behaviour. Mayor Banman\u2019s \u201csorry\u201d is nothing more than an acknowledgement that his, city council\u2019s and the City of Abbotsford\u2019s interpersonal accounts with the homeless are out of balance; that the lack of scruples and ethics in the City\u2019s treatment of the homeless has resulted in a debt being owed the homeless. The personal account balances of the mayor, council, the City of Abbotsford and Abbotsford\u2019s homeless citizens cannot be brought into balance through words. The homeless have heard Abbotsford mayors and councils say \u201csorry\u201d on numerous occasions over the past ten years. \u201cSorry\u201d being said to the homeless whenever the actions of mayors and councils have put the City of Abbotsford under negative public scrutiny by the media. If there is any group in Abbotsford who understand how valueless the words, particularly \u201csorry\u201d, of Abbotsford\u2019s mayors and councillors are &#8211; it is the homeless. The mayor, council and the City of Abbotsford will have apologized to the homelss when they stop treating the homeless like an infestation to be cleansed from the city and treat them as human beings in need of a helping hand, encouragement and support to get on their feet and achieve a state of wellness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,13,45,44,20,62],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2760","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-behaviour","category-homeless","category-issues","category-media","category-municipal","category-politics-the-issues"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Words do NOT an apology make. - James W. 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